Wow…
So we’re back to THIS, huh???
OK… So today while on the Twitters, I came across a heavily-retweeted blog post by some random dude calling himself a “relationship coach” in which he stated that only “women” carry condoms… LOOSE women at that.
Are you fucking kidding me?
Also, he said that LADIES don’t carry condoms because they are only really ever having sex with one man (and I guess it doesn’t matter how many “women” this man is having sex with besides his “lady, huh?).
I don’t know who refused to fuck this guy and made him a bitter bastard, but he needs to have the most uncomfortable of seats and cool the fuck out.
His logic was that “women” who carry condoms are basically saying they’ll give it up to anyone at anytime in any place. He equated a “woman” who carries condoms to a perpetual jump-off jawn. Apparently, if you care at all about protecting yourself from unplanned pregnancies and STD’s, you’re a heaux. I was unaware of this.
Do any of these same thought processes apply when the woman is on the pill? Or is she only a whore when it is OBVIOUS that she has given forethought to her safety and reproductive health?
I can only assume he climbed from under a rock in the year 1900 and has just figured out that women not only like sex, but want to protect themselves. Let me be clear; CARRYING CONDOMS (AND USING SAID CONDOMS) makes you SMART, not a HEAUX. The fact that women are being treated like common strumpets because they enjoy sex and because they no longer leave their pleasure (and LIVES) in the hands of others is deplorable. You lames are really out of control in thinking that women aren’t “allowed” to want sex without your say-so.
The fact is, women are out here in the world living our lives. We contain multitudes and when you belittle our right to be HUMAN, you belittle yourselves. As Jada Pinkett-Smith put it so eloquently in a recent post on Sinuous Magazine’s website, the war on men through the degradation of women is REAL. And it starts with men having the unmitigated gall to assume that when a woman carries condoms, for whatever her reasons, that she is setting it out to be judged by armchair “relationship experts” with blogspot degrees.
Fuck. Outta. Here.
Sex is always used to make us feel low. We’re whores if we like to have sex, we’re careless and reckless if we become pregnant, and we’re dirty if we end up with STD’s; yet we’re frigid and stuck-up when we decide that we’re not here for your dime-a-dozen peens or your absolutely ingenious pick-up lines… like the absolutely breath-taking line, “you trying to get the pipe?” Yeah. OK.
Listen… I fully understand that promiscuity and sexual entrapment (somehow) are a thing. But MEN being responsible for whom they choose to slang their derelict dick in is as well. The blogger went on to talk about how men just naturally will have sex with any ole body and that is perfectly fine… but the implication was that if a woman should chose to have sex with even just ONE of these men would make her a whore. It doesn’t seem to matter the circumstances of how this magical night of humping comes about, just that it happens. At some point. And that the WOMAN has a condom available. Doesn’t matter if you’ve been dating for months and a spontaneous moment happens… doesn’t matter if you just make the choice to screw because YOUR vagina said, “Ayo. It’s time. I’m DYING down here.” Nope. You’re a whore. And there’s no debate.
I for one am TIRED of these “men” (and some of these insane women) trying to own OUR vaginas. LET MY CUNT BE!!! It is OUR choice whom we chose to screw, WHEN we chose to screw them and WHY. And it is ABSOLUTELY OUR RIGHT and our decision, dare I say our salvation, to carry our own protection.
Ladies, women, whores, jump-offs, strumpets, chicks, jawns, chumpies and ma’ams of the world… PROTECT YOURSELVES!!!
Now if only they made a condom to protect us from the bullshit…
The Heaux Complex: Condoms For Everyone,