First of all, if you don’t want people to comment on your love life, keep that shit to yourself. I learned that shit the hard way. This applies to the single and the attached. You have GOT to chill. Single people, if you complain to your attached friends, they WILL give you advice. PERIOD. Why??? Because, attached people want their friends attached too. It’s the law of the universe, if your friends are out here happy; they want that shit for you too… IF they are actually your friend, they want you to be as in love as they are. So if you don’t wanna hear their opinions, SHUT THE FUCK UP. They’re going to give it to you if you seem to even remotely want it. Don’t be a moron.

So it got me thinking about my “bad habits” and what about them drew me in. Was it the physical like the way they looked or the way they smelled? Or was it the mental like the conversations we had? Or was it pure chemistry, like that moment when the way you look at each other melts your drawls and your inhibitions without fail…?

So now what? Your QB is not cutting it, your Wide Receiver may get a promotion, but who will fill his spot in the meanies??? THIS is where the trades make it a glorious January. You have given the appropriate amount of time for these guys to prove their worth and they have been found wanting.

That being said, understand folks… having a spectacular mouf game can be the difference between making it all the way #JumpoffSeason with your current boo and being recalled to the team or being kicked to the curb in January and not making the Big Game in May.

But in all the research I’ve done on Cuffing Season etiquette, I’ve only been able to find posts skewed at the fellas. You may think this is because the ladies don’t do any cuffing season scouting, but you would be WRONG. So very wrong. The unfortunate misconception is that we ladies are content to just get picked for a team, any team, in what amounts to the social network equivalent of a dodge-ball game disguised as love.

Love IS love. It doesn’t matter with whom you experience it.

I.  Loathe.  Brussels sprouts… And I’m not the only one.  I find them to be an abomination to my taste buds and a horrible affront to the other tastier vegetables.  But do I believe that farmers shouldn’t have the right to GROW brussels sprouts? Ummmmmm… fuck no.  There are those out there who adore the [...]

You’ve reached the 30′s… And if you don’t feel like it is the most amazing time of your life, you should just go ahead and become a sloth right now because you’re missing the whole point. With age comes maturity and wisdom, or at least it should. I cant say that I didn’t make some inglorious mistakes all throughout my lifetime, but it’s the growth that came from it that makes me the content 30-something that I am.

so.

tho i’m newly single, here’s my gift 2 all u fellaz out there, single and attached…

if ur a fan of the show, u know that one of our FAVE sites for manformation was AskMen.com.

so…

here, according to them, are some awesome things u can give ur girl 4 Vday…

…SEX!!! got ur attention? good. it was time… so, i’ve been trying to think of a topicBlack Couple that would be different than the stuff we’ve talked about on the show and wutnot, which were pretty broad, cuz we’re total phreaks… anywho, i found this blog post while scrolling thru my twitter peeps, by @realadulttalk. the blog is about a conversation that she had with 2 friends in which one friend was explaining to the other two that she thought a guy she was seeing may be bisexual…

…so…

without further adieu, i give you a classic WWTF episode…

Sex Toys I…